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Hey ladies, one of our sisters posted this blog and I decided to make this the featured topic for the week. It's our job to help those who reach out to us, so lets do just that. Remember ladies, we are not here to judge. Be honest, but remain positive at the same time.

I am 26 years old and have found myself looking at other womens bodies quite often lately. It actually started my junior year in highschool, but I have become more intrested over the years. It makes me a little uncomfortable how I find them attractive and I wonder if the arousal is normal. I was molested by lots of people (mainly women ) growing up and I don't know if I am just confused still. I watch pornography with my boyfriend of 12 years very often and he seems to be alright with my attraction to other women. He doesn't want me to cheat but he's very interested in experiminting with a threesome. I know I am not lesbian but I wonder if I am bisexual. I have been with 2 women and I don't know how I felt about the situation after it was over. I have 2 daughters with my boyfriend and would never imagine being with a woman in a relationship because I think it is wrong and against GOD's will. I just find myself often looking at a womens breast, hips, or booty and I feel like eveyone knows it. I have heard about women who explore different lifestlyes on the "Tyra Show" but I am not sure if this secret way of life is something that is realistic or just to get ratings. Should I explore my sexuality with my boyfriend and just enjoy our life together and that he accepts me no matter what or should I get help because I may be dealing with the sexual abuse in an unhealthy way?

I must say I have never had romantic feelings towards a woman, just sexual ones. Can this make a difference? These problems are affecting my self confidence when I am out amongst others because I feel that people may notice me looking at women. Sisters, please tell me if I need help or if this may just be another part of being young, exploring and finding myself.